Kim Hess Author & Life Coach for Divorced Women

Kim Hess Author & Life Coach for Divorced Women http://kimhess.com Author & Life Coach helping divorced women, divorce articles Tue, 11 Dec 2012 19:37:50 +0000 en-US hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 Is Jada Pinkett Smith’s open marriage the solution for less divorce? http://kimhess.com/is-jada-pinkett-smiths-open-marriage-the-solution-for-less-divorce/ http://kimhess.com/is-jada-pinkett-smiths-open-marriage-the-solution-for-less-divorce/#comments Tue, 11 Dec 2012 19:26:25 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=5230 I had a conversation with a girlfriend about the posts that Pinkett Smith has been writing on her Facebook page recently about relationships between men and women. I, for the record, am a big fan of Jada and Will ... ]]> http://kimhess.com/is-jada-pinkett-smiths-open-marriage-the-solution-for-less-divorce/feed/ 0 Do you drink more now that you’re divorced? http://kimhess.com/do-you-drink-more-now-that-youre-divorced/ http://kimhess.com/do-you-drink-more-now-that-youre-divorced/#comments Tue, 11 Dec 2012 02:40:03 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=5219 infographic that was the source of my inspiration for the article lined up side by side who drinks more: men or women, divorced or married, single or widowed?
The overwhelming and not too surprising result of the infographic was that men drink more than women and if you’re sad and lonely you are more likely to have your stomach ... ]]> http://kimhess.com/do-you-drink-more-now-that-youre-divorced/feed/ 0 Helping will make your life better after divorce http://kimhess.com/helping-will-make-your-life-better-after-divorce/ http://kimhess.com/helping-will-make-your-life-better-after-divorce/#comments Fri, 15 Jun 2012 16:30:06 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=5145 When dealing with life after divorce it is easy to wallow in pity and sadness about the wrongs that were done to you, or the wrongs that you committed during your divorce. At times we may wallow a little bit too long, making our lives and ... ]]> http://kimhess.com/helping-will-make-your-life-better-after-divorce/feed/ 0 Life after Divorce: Courage is the word of the day http://kimhess.com/life-after-divorce-courage-is-the-word-of-the-day/ http://kimhess.com/life-after-divorce-courage-is-the-word-of-the-day/#comments Mon, 30 Apr 2012 11:00:09 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=5140 Related posts:

]]> http://kimhess.com/life-after-divorce-courage-is-the-word-of-the-day/feed/ 0 Dating after Divorce Advice: Just cuz he’s nice to you doesn’t mean he’s the one http://kimhess.com/dating-after-divorce-advice-just-cuz-hes-nice-to-you-doesnt-mean-hes-the-one/ http://kimhess.com/dating-after-divorce-advice-just-cuz-hes-nice-to-you-doesnt-mean-hes-the-one/#comments Wed, 25 Apr 2012 01:29:32 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=5137 I’ve been finding clients telling me “Kim, he was so nice, I thought he really liked me. I thought he could be the one.” This is after they’ve had sex with them and he hasn’t called them in 2 weeks. I have to gently, and calmly let them know that: he was nice, he did probably like you for that moment he wasn’t the one, and he was just trying to ... ]]> http://kimhess.com/dating-after-divorce-advice-just-cuz-hes-nice-to-you-doesnt-mean-hes-the-one/feed/ 0 Thank you Whitney Houston. It’s not right, but it’s okay.RIP http://kimhess.com/thankyouwhitneyhouston/ http://kimhess.com/thankyouwhitneyhouston/#comments Mon, 13 Feb 2012 01:28:14 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=1915 Thanks Whitney, for telling us that although its not right, that we’ll eventually be okay. That we’re gonna make it anyway. Remember this song ... ]]> http://kimhess.com/thankyouwhitneyhouston/feed/ 1 Don’t let him bother you http://kimhess.com/dont-let-him-bother-you/ http://kimhess.com/dont-let-him-bother-you/#comments Thu, 26 Jan 2012 11:18:17 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=1912 “Why do you let him bother you? As inconsequential as a fly, just swat him away-flies eventually go away, eventually dying, when conditions become inhospitable.”
]]> http://kimhess.com/dont-let-him-bother-you/feed/ 6 You’re not missing anything out there http://kimhess.com/youre-not-missing-anything-out-there/ http://kimhess.com/youre-not-missing-anything-out-there/#comments Wed, 25 Jan 2012 11:15:44 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=1910 Love will find you when he’s ready.
And more importantly when you’re ready.
]]> http://kimhess.com/youre-not-missing-anything-out-there/feed/ 6 Heidi Klum,Seal, and Kenny G divorce-it’s a sad, sad day http://kimhess.com/1906/ http://kimhess.com/1906/#comments Sun, 22 Jan 2012 17:25:08 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=1906 First I find out that Heidi Klum and Seal are getting divorced. Damn.
Then, it is revealed to me that Kenny G and his wife are calling it quits. Dayum!!
How much divorce can one Divorce Guru take in one day? (Technically lots, but that’s not the point here. Dramatic effect.)
I don’t know why these couples are getting divorced but it’s always sad to know that the love is no longer there ... ]]> http://kimhess.com/1906/feed/ 1 Stop trying to replace love http://kimhess.com/stop-trying-to-replace-love/ http://kimhess.com/stop-trying-to-replace-love/#comments Thu, 19 Jan 2012 13:36:09 +0000 Kim Hess http://www.kimhess.com/?p=1902 Stop trying to replace love.
Those guys you’re sleeping with? You’re not sexually free, just starved for attention.
And love.
You’re better than that. Stop trying to replace love and figure out how to love yourself.
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