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Is Jada Pinkett Smith’s open marriage the solution for less divorce?

Is Jada Pinkett Smith’s open marriage the solution for less divorce?

I just wrote an article for my Examiner column, that deals with a Facebook post that Jada Pinkett Smith, wife of Will Smith wrote recently.  Read the letter here then come back so I can talk to you about open marriages.

I had a conversation with a girlfriend about the posts that Pinkett Smith has been writing on her Facebook page recently about relationships between men and women.  ...

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Do you drink more now that you’re divorced?

I just wrote an article for my column over at Examiner.comabout how your relationship status affects how much you drink. The

infographic that was the source of my inspiration for the article lined up side by side who drinks more: men or women, divorced or married, single or widowed?

The overwhelming and not too surprising result of the infographic was that men drink more than women and if you’re sad and lonely ...

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Helping will make your life better after divorce

It’s a drag to get divorced. No, really it is.  Calling your divorce a drag may be a bit of an understatement, like calling Niagra Falls a trickling of water, but it’s still a drag right?!

When dealing with life after divorce it is easy to wallow in pity and sadness about the wrongs that were done to you, or the wrongs that you committed during your divorce.  At times we may wallow ...

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Life after Divorce: Courage is the word of the day

Today dear reader,  we are going to talk about confidence. A lot of times when a woman gets divorced she also mistakenly divorces her confidence. This could happen for a number of reasons. You may have had a husband who told you on a regular basis that you were no good. You may have had a husband who told you that you could not make it without him. At the time you may ...

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Dating after Divorce Advice: Just cuz he’s nice to you doesn’t mean he’s the one

Okay ladies, I need to talk to you.

I’ve been finding clients telling me “Kim, he was so nice, I thought he really liked me.  I thought he could be the one.”   This is after they’ve had sex with them and he hasn’t called them in 2 weeks.  I have to gently, and calmly let them know that:   he was nice,  he did probably like you for that moment he wasn’t the one, ...

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Thank you Whitney Houston. It’s not right, but it’s okay.RIP

Whitney Houston sang this song to all of the women of the world who’ve been cheated on, abused, and left alone to wonder if they could make it without their husband, their boyfriend, the man that they had loved so much. She herself was divorced and knew the pain of loving so hard that it hurt.

Thanks Whitney, for telling us that although its not right, that we’ll eventually be okay. That we’re gonna ...

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Don’t let him bother you

For all the ex-wives who deal with controlling, mean ex-husbands:

“Why do you let him bother you?  As inconsequential as a fly, just swat him away-flies eventually go away, eventually dying, when conditions become inhospitable.”

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You’re not missing anything out there

You’re not missing anything out there.

Love will find you when he’s ready.

And more importantly when you’re ready.

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Heidi Klum,Seal, and Kenny G divorce-it’s a sad, sad day

Yesterday was a sad day for me.

First I find out that Heidi Klum and Seal are getting divorced. Damn.

Then, it is revealed to me that Kenny G and his wife are calling it quits. Dayum!!

How much divorce can one Divorce Guru take in one day? (Technically lots, but that’s not the point here.  Dramatic effect.)

I don’t know why these couples are getting divorced but it’s always sad ...

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Stop trying to replace love

Stop it.

Stop trying to replace love.

Those guys you’re sleeping with? You’re not sexually free, just starved for attention.

And love.

You’re better than that.  Stop trying to replace love and figure out how to love yourself.

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