I was sitting at the bus stop waiting for public transport to take me home after getting my groceries for dinner. Since I live in San Francisco and I have a kind face, a homeless man wheeled up to me to ask for money. His wheelchair as well as his filthy three piece wool suit [...]
October 2, 2008
What’s worse than being a 30 something year old woman out in the dating world trying to find her perfect soul mate? Being a 30 something year old woman out in the dating world trying to find her second perfect soul mate who doesn’t mind that she’s divorced, unemployed, and has two young kids that [...]
February 8, 2010
I love answering these questions, mainly because I've been wondering about the answers. Funny, I never wondered if penis size mattered or if a woman should ask a guy out for a date until I got divorced. Whoo, thank God I got divorced so I could answer these questions for you! Enjoy the video, and tell me what you think!
February 6, 2010
On my radio show Divorce Guru, I speak about the tendency to isolate oneself in life after divorce or breakup. This is why I advocate that after your heart has been ripped from your heart, you need to build and nurture community. Heck, even if you haven’t been divorced, everyone isolates themselves [...]
February 3, 2010
I was reading a blog post today called “Online Dating is Like Eating Leftovers.” This topic brought up lots of opinions about divorced dating, online dating, men who date women half their age, and bitter woman over 40. Wow! Of course, your Divorce Guru had to give her two cents: I get what [...]
February 1, 2010
Today’s Kim Hess Divorce Guru post is written by Suzanne Blake, my awesome relationship coach. I’ve asked Suzanne to give us a little more insight on the subject of divorced women pursuing or rushing into relationships after their divorce to have that oh so wonderful security that marriage provides. Suzanne reminded me that [...]
January 29, 2010
Today’s Divorce Guru post is from the fabulous Jackie Summers who writes the blog “F*cking in Brooklyn” which is about, well, f*cking in Brooklyn! (Oh, how I wish that was me!) Actually, his writing is filled with more than just sex…it’s witty, insightful, funny, and…well, pretty f*cking great! I know you will [...]
January 26, 2010
I was reading a posting on Divorce360.com which posed the question, “If you marry again, what will be different?” I admit, the thought of marrying again has crossed my mind. And my canned response is always “If I get married again, my husband will live next door…or on the other side of the [...]
January 25, 2010
Heard about Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie possibly splitting? The News of the World, a British publication (trashy tabloid!) came out a few days ago saying that Brangelina were splitting up. Angie supposedly was to live with the kids and Brad was going to live next door. I read it, and the news [...]
January 23, 2010
I’m thinking about getting out of the dating game. Yeah, yeah, I know what you’re thinking: How can someone who averages 4-5 dates a month possibly contemplate getting out of the dating game? Easy. Dating sucks. Which is why I will impart some wise Divorce Guru dating tips for those of you [...]
January 22, 2010
Hello friends! How is dating like a hotel room? Let me tell you… First, let’s start by talking about my divorce. It was bad. I felt rejected, alone, and sad. Though I initiated it, divorce was the last thing I wanted. What I wanted was my old marriage back…happy, loving, [...]
January 21, 2010
I’m divorced dating…you know, dating while divorced. There are many similarities and many differences to getting back on the horse after divorce and dating while never having been married. Is dating after divorce better or worse? Let me break it down for you. Divorced dating is better. Period. Why? You’ve already [...]
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